Interview with Carolyn A. Brent, author of Why Wait?

Why waitToday I have the great pleasure of being the host on Day 12 of the Virtual Blog Tour of author Carolyn A. Brent whose book Why Wait? The Baby Boomers’ Guide to Preparing Emotionally, Financially and Legally for a Parent’s Death launches on Amazon on Tuesday November 15, 2011.

Author Carolyn A. Brent, M.B.A. is a former clinical educational manager in the pharmaceutical industry. She is an avid activist and advocate working with the U.S. Congress for the purpose of creating change to protect seniors and veterans from financial and medical abuse. She has appeared on many local and national TV and radio shows, and is a sought-after keynote speaker.

Yesterday, Carolyn visited Sheila Jones at http://SpiritualMarketing-Blog.com/books-by-spiritus-members/carolyn-a-brent-why-wait/ , where Carolyn was on a podcast interview with Shelagh.

Today, I’d like to share with you a recent interview I had with Carolyn when I got to ask her some questions on her inspiration, lesson and self-care. I hope you enjoy it.

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Joe: What prompted you and who inspired you to write a book about caring for a parent in their last years?

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Author Carolyn Brent

Carolyn A. Brent:  For years I tried unsuccessfully to have a conversation with my own siblings about the medical and financial needs of our aging father, then in his seventies, who was suffering from dementia and other medical complications.  Because of my Dad’s failing health I felt I should initiate this conversation since I had an especially close relationship with him.  My siblings just flat out refused to have the crucial conversation with me, each other, and our father. This is the conversation I continually stress that adult children really need to have regarding their aging parents’ health and affairs. My siblings were simply too busy with their own lives, and so we put it off.  In our case, this led to an extremely bad outcome.

Through struggling with the legal, medical, financial, and familial issues that come up when adult children handle such matters poorly (whether due to denial or to strife), I discovered there were no books on what needs to be covered and planned for, written from the perspective of siblings. Siblings have special needs at such times and, ideally, can be of great comfort to one another. I found no books that discussed the ideal scenario of sibling conversations versus the worst-case scenario of no conversations, as well as cases when sibling rivalry and resentment are allowed to interfere with planning and care. My siblings and I are living proof that this can go very, very wrong, leading to no one’s benefit: neither the children’s, nor the parent’s.

Joe: What is the one most important thing you want people who read this book to take away?

Carolyn A. Brent: Why wait? Have the crucial conversations, do the paperwork, and then you and your family members can go back to the routine of living your best lives, secure in the knowledge that affairs are in order.

Joe: What is the importance of taking care of yourself when you are a caregiver?

Carolyn A. Brent:    After going through the journey and heartache of being the sole family caregiver for my father for twelve years, and then enduring the pain of legal conflicts with my siblings, I ultimately asked myself a key question: What would you do differently if you could do it all over again? My answer was simple: I would take better care of myself at every step in the process.

To be an effective caregiver, you must take care of yourself as well. Now on the other end of caregiving, I find that exercise and meditation help me to relax as I never did beforehand. I wish I would have known to nurture myself better while I was on the journey with my father.

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I hope you enjoyed this interview with Carolyn A. Brent and that you’ll check out her book Why Wait? The Baby Boomers’ Guide to Preparing Emotionally, Financially and Legally for a Parent’s Death at http://www.babyboomersguide.org/book-launch/pre-launch.html

 

Here Are Two Reasons Why:

 

FREE 3-DAY PASS

When you visit the page at the link above and request a “launch reminder”, you will automatically receive a FREE pass to Carolyn’s 3-day “Why Wait? Telesummit”, with a panel leading experts preparing emotionally, financially and legally for the death of a parent.  You can listen to the telesummit online in the comfort of your own home, and even ask questions during the broadcast.

 

This telesummit is a completely free
“no purchase necessary” gift from Carolyn

To register, go to

http://www.babyboomersguide.org/book-launch/telesummit.html

FREE GIFTS

When you buy Carolyn’s book on Tuesday November 15, 2011, you can ALSO receive a complete library of beautiful personal development gifts from authors, speakers, coaches and other enlightened professionals from around the globe.

To claim your 3-Day Pass and read about the free gifts, go to: http://www.babyboomersguide.org/book-launch/pre-launch.html

 

Thanks for reading! As usual, please feel free to share your comments and thoughts below. I love reading your feedback.

 

AND… be sure to follow Carolyn tomorrow when the next stop on the Virtual Blog Tour is Denise M. Brown, who will be interviewing Carolyn on her caregiving experiences and memories.  To visit that “stop” on the tour, go to http://www.caregiving.com/2011/11/why-wait-an-interview-with-a-former-family-caregiver/

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